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      <title>Find the Love of Your Life</title>
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      <title>Great Managers &amp; Growth</title>
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      <title>Coaching a Manager</title>
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      <pubDate>4/2/2011 3:51:00 PM</pubDate>
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      <title>Are You a Great Manager or A Manager?</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355906"&gt;It snowed like crazy last night and today. The city is frozen out. Decision time. Are you a great manager or are you a manager. 
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355907"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355909"&gt;Let me give you the best example I have seen in many years. Sean, 
manager over a critical needs area knew the situation. The entire city 
was shut down. No one was coming to work. Sean took action. While most 
of the city was reacting to the hype of bad weather, while most of the 
city was hunkering down and reacting to the news by making excuses why they could not&amp;#160;go to work,&amp;#160;Sean acted.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355910"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355912"&gt;The night before the huge storms he planned his staff. He contacted
 them, he arranged with them, he shared with them. They were prepared 
for what was coming. While everyone else, including my work group spoke 
of nothing but why they probably would
 not be able to make it into work, Sean's team was already into a 
completely different mode and had enacted a solution to a problem that 
did not yet exist.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355913"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355915"&gt;Sean arranged transportation for his group through a service that would not be stopped by inclement weather.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355916"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355918"&gt;My usual 55 minute drive to work was the longest of any of my 
coworkers. All of them shared the day before that if this storm happened
 they would not be able to make it in. As I said goodbye to them that 
afternoon, I said to all of them, see
 you tomorrow and without exception they said, 'we'll see.' But you see,
 by my words you already know my ACTION. I was coming to work. I had 
made my decision. I had enacted MY plan. And it was one that I knew I 
could put into place and make happen. Everyone else was waiting to react
 to whatever was coming our way. My 55 minute drive took almost two 
hours today, I knew it would, I planned for it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355919"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355921"&gt;After six hours on our desks only one other of my 9 member crew had
 come to work. Of Sean's crew all five had made it to work. And as I 
spoke with my managers, supervisors and superiors I noted that none of 
them had come to work either.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355922"&gt;A manager/boss, sets the tone for the office by their own actions. I
 and Sean had taken ACTION while everyone else reacted to the storm. 
Sean had his people catered in for their respective assignments and 
catered home, picking up his second shifters on the way.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355923"&gt;As I sit here, now alone, I note that unless something changes, my 
second shift will be without staff. How critical is it that this job be 
manned 24 hours a day? Well, if your facility intends to operate 24 
hours a day then the support staff they employ needs to know they are 
important to the organization and especially to their manager.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355924"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355926"&gt;Sean not only made arrangements for his staff to be here, he was 
the one picking them up. He worked all day and then into this night 
making sure his vital department staff understood their importance to 
the organization. I only understood that if I neglected my duties 
probably every other person on my crew would ignore theirs. I planned my
 course of action and made it happen. Was it easy? When most people give
 up or give in it's then that you realize who has the strength of 
character you are looking for.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355927"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355929"&gt;Sean is one of the GREAT MANAGERS I talk about. How about you? Did 
you stay home and hope your staff made it to work? Did you stay home and
 hope your staff would help you out?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-14355930"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
Become great by learning how to be a GREAT MANAGER. Come subscribe to my blog at &lt;a href="https://red001.mail.microsoftonline.com/owa/redir.aspx?C=368adf24c44641278d5b15a03cc182eb&amp;URL=http%3a%2f%2fwww.stevesapato.com%2f" target="_blank" class="userlink"&gt;www.stevesapato.com&lt;/a&gt; and get weekly information and articles on managing people, because GREAT MANAGERS ARE MADE NOT BORN.&lt;div id="ctrl-14355933"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>1/11/2011 4:19:00 PM</pubDate>
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      <title>Great Managers Are Proactive</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942049"&gt;It's NEW YEARS EVE and I am always 
stunned by the number of resolutions people make at this time. 
Resolutions are merely wishes hopes and dreams that people could not set
 goals for all and suddenly find support to do it TODAY! As a manager 
and trainer I find that the people who didn't set their goals all year 
long are probably not going to succeed with those goals at this time of 
the year. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942051"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942053"&gt;Great Managers are the opposite of New Years Resolution 
people. Great Managers always have to be looking ahead, by days, weeks, 
months and even years. They have to be planning for their people, their 
departments, the goals that they have set and that their superiors have 
set.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942054"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942056"&gt;Great Managers are influential in helping their people be proactive 
rather than reactive. Great Managers help their people establish 
themselves as leaders, as movers and shakers and as great followers.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942057"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942059"&gt;The one great failure for most managers is their&amp;#160;lack of vision. Their lack of being able to see the bigger picture and how to conquer and succeed in that picture.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-2942060"&gt;What will you be doing in 2011 to establish your department as the 
primo department for the year? What will you be doing to make your 
department the envy of your company or organization.&amp;#160; Here's to an amazing and prosperous 2011.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>1/2/2011 6:45:00 PM</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644798"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644800"&gt;Are you a good manager or a great manager? A good manager gets to 
work on time, gets his department on track and gets the job done.&amp;#160;And 
they think that is all they need&amp;#160;to do. They will even justify how hard 
they work and how good they are.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644801"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644803"&gt;But a GREAT manager does all of those 
things and more, much more. A great manager will accomplish all of that 
and when asked will invite and encourage feedback, listen, share and try
 to understand why his people are do what they do. A GREAT manager will 
be involved, actively involved in finding out what his people are 
talking about, gossiping about, complaining about. A good manager will 
hear a complaint, typically push it aside because they are so busy and 
ignore it because they forgot all about it because it was&amp;#160;just people 
complaining. While&amp;#160;a GREAT manager will actively involve themselves in 
the gossip, to find out what it is, why it is taking place, and follow 
it. At the source they will find the truth of the gossip, complaint or 
vibe. A GREAT manager will have access to that because their people will
 know they are not going to be in trouble because a GREAT manager will 
have great communication skills and attitude so that their people will 
know and understand that their manager is their to help them, build them
 up and make them better at their job so that they, as the manager, will
 look even better.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644804"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644806"&gt;Finding the source of office gossip, 
dealing with the situation or problem and rectifying any areas that need
 improvement are the responsibility of a GREAT manager. Most people 
won't gossip if they know they can take any complaint or situation 
directly to their GREAT manager and get it off their chest. And a GREAT 
manager will deal with each thing that comes up with honesty and 
integrity and even making sure that there is&amp;#160;follow-up conversations to let their people know all about what is happening and how it affects the entire group.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644807"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-7644809"&gt;Here's hoping you have many GREAT managers working with, for and around you, including your boss, another GREAT manager.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-297166"&gt;See what Steve has to say about great managers are learners.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-297167"&gt;&lt;div id="mediaPlayer_34966d0b_7dd6_44d8_b648_b381ceec2b96_container" style="margin:0 1.5em 7px 0;height:514px;width:579px;float:left;"&gt;&lt;table class="media-player-container" style="text-align:left"&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.thetwentybook.com/vp/JS-Lib/CustomerSites/Common/media_player.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_34966d0b_7dd6_44d8_b648_b381ceec2b96_cell"&gt;You need Flash Player in order to view this.&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;vp.events.addOnDOMLoadHandler(function() {vp.website.createVideoPlayer('mediaPlayer_34966d0b_7dd6_44d8_b648_b381ceec2b96', 'http://www.youtube.com/v/ELHYun2GDqE', 579, 514, false);});&lt;/script&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_34966d0b_7dd6_44d8_b648_b381ceec2b96_title" class="media-player-song-title"&gt;Great managers are learners.&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td id="mediaPlayer_34966d0b_7dd6_44d8_b648_b381ceec2b96_desc" class="media-player-song-description"&gt;Steve Sapato of Sapato Seminars discusses why great managers need to be learners in order to excel and succeed.&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>11/17/2010 9:34:00 AM</pubDate>
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      <title>Great Managers - Finding Your Center!</title>
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 watch managers struggle every single day and wonder.. is it because 
they truly don’t know? Don’t understand? Or have never been taught! &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807563"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;I
 watch managers every day who don’t know how to delegate or are afraid 
of the consequences, repercussions or reactions of their staff. I watch 
supervisors react in situations instead of acting upon those situations.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807564"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807565"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;A
 GREAT MANAGER should be trained, informed, held accountable for their 
staff, the training of that staff, the motivating of that staff, the 
effectiveness of that staff. It is the managers duty to involve their 
people, create in their people a desire to not only be effective but to 
excel at their jobs and even superset and help others succeed at their 
jobs also.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807566"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807567"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;GREAT
 MANAGERS ARE MADE by seeing the problem or challenge before it happens 
and planning how they will handle the situation if and or when it 
arrives. A great manager is made into someone who will face their boss 
and deliver an effective solution to a problem or at least acknowledge 
and share with them the problems they are facing so that they can get 
help fixing the problem if they are not prepared or trained for that 
situation.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807568"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807569"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Staying
 focused and not getting out of balance in a crucial moment can make all
 the difference in resolving a situation and not exacerbating it. FIND 
YOUR CENTER and know that you can handle any situation even if it 
involved asking for assistance from your boss or your staff.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807570"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Remember, you hired your staff for their excellence. Don’t be afraid to call upon it.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807571"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-4807572"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Need additional management training to turn your supervisors and managers into GREAT MANAGERS? Call upon &lt;/font&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stevesapato.com/" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#800080"&gt;www.stevesapato.com&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt; for some real answers and excellent training for your people.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-- &lt;/div&gt;
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      <pubDate>10/20/2010 9:47:00 AM</pubDate>
      <guid>http://www.thetwentybook.com/blog/2010/10/20/Great-Managers-Finding-Your-Center.aspx</guid>
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      <title>Want to be a better speaker?</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408811"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Would you like to be a better speaker in front of a group?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408812"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408813"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;It
 used to be said that the fear of speaking in public was the number one 
fear people had. While that made little sense to many of us it was very 
true for those who had that fear. Well, somewhere along the way from 
1950 until today we have found in the computer age that we find 
ourselves speaking to groups fairly frequently. So while it may not be 
as frightening as it once was it is an area where we now want to excel.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408814"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408815"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;As
 a wanna-be manager, supervisor and manager we need to be better 
speakers. We need to know how to garner followers, give confidence, show
 strength, reduce stress and anxiety and show us as capable individuals.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408816"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408817"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;If
 this is true then what are you doing to become a better speaker? I 
taught public speaking for seven years at the college level and have 
continued to teach and instruct on a contractual level for many years.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408818"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408819"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;What
 I have found is that most of us really do not understand the subtleties
 of speaking in front of a group. We think we know. Most managers THINK 
they are great speakers but when you ask their staff most just roll 
their eyes. After all, we can’t speak badly of our boss, they might hear
 about it and take revenge.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408820"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408821"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;When
 I ask people if they really know how to speak in front of a group, most
 say of course, and blow me off. But then I ask, really? So you practice
 making faces in front of your mirror? Answered 100% of the time… no! of
 course not. That’s stupid.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408822"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408823"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;And then I ask, but you know what your face and body language are saying?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408824"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;And again, unequivocally YES!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408825"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408826"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;So have you ever had someone ask you if you were OK? Or if you were having a bad day? And you weren’t?&amp;#160; Then you don’t always know what you r face or body language is saying. And it’s THAT type of thing that we all need to improve.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408827"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408828"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;If
 you are speaking in front of a group and you don’t realize that you are
 raising an eyebrow, or that your mouth moves a certain way, or that 
when you speak you tug at your lip… then you have no clue what message 
you are sending to your audience.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408829"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408830"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Want
 to get better at speaking in front of a group? Sign up for some 
private/group training. Have your company contact a professional. 
Someone who KNOWS how to train speakers. Someone who will not tippy toe 
around you because you have a position but will tell you what you need 
to improve upon and make you improve, allow you to make mistakes, video 
tape you and show you the flaws so you can ‘understand’ emotionally what
 you need to work on. And believe me when I say, the video taping is 
MANDATORY for your improvement.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408831"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-191408832"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;Want to be a better speaker in front of a group? Call someone today. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stevesapato.com/" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#800080"&gt;www.stevesapato.com&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <link>http://www.thetwentybook.com/blog/2010/10/01/Want-to-be-a-better-speaker.aspx</link>
      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Steve Sapato</creator>
      <pubDate>10/1/2010 12:45:00 PM</pubDate>
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